It is often tempting to fall into the competition trap when it comes to planning our wedding – this is our moment and we wish to have the most lavish wedding of all.

During her preparations for world wedding domination, a bride should keep in mind that getting too caught up with outdoing her friends can easily make her lose focus of what this moment is really about: a reflection of her personality and a celebration of her relationship with her significant other.

Getting creative, going all out and aiming for the sky are all perfectly acceptable (and encouraged!) - just remember to keep the focus on you and your new life with your husband instead of making this day about your friends.

Brides and grooms will often cut their cake in the sole presence of the photographer. You’ve spent time (and a small fortune!) choosing the perfect cake, so why not flaunt it a little before it gets served? Doing the cutting in the middle of the dance floor to an appropriately chosen song allows you to connect with your guests by involving them in a moment that too often goes unnoticed.

Having only the bride and groom comprise the greeting line is an alternative to consider in order to up the momentum of your reception. Your guests are primarily here to congratulate you and most won’t know your extended family, bridesmaids and ushers. Reducing the size of the greeting line ensures the festivities begin earlier and sustains the energy levels of your guests.